Why new years resolutions fail...
- Scott James Purves
- Jan 7, 2023
- 2 min read
New years resolutions made...
Ambitious goals, hopes & dreams
But most won't make it
They'll slip in a month or two
But why?
In my mind, it boils down to one thing, upon which everything else is built -
Your 'WHY'
The reason you do what you do
The driving force behind your behaviour
- Habits need to be formed to develop consistency
- Goals should be formed to give direction
But if there's no solid foundation or reason for getting out of bed in the morning...it's a house built on sand.
Goals are set because of what we derive from achieving them.
How they make us feel
What they stir up inside of us
So a strong purpose is everything
And the biggest barriers to getting there?
- Apathy
- Settling for less
- Being OK with average
- Self doubt
- Lack of belief
- Bad habits
- Pessimism
- Conditioning
So how do you push through and become one of the few who actually start fulfilling their potential?
Spend as long as you need to form a well defined WHY
Don't just know it intellectually
But feel it emotionally
Right in the pit of your stomach
Meditate on it...to the point you give yourself goosebumps
Run 5 kilometers with your favourite music blaring and feel that fire light up every part of your being
Move like you've already achieved it
Shout it out if you have to
Become the person you visualise as you walk down the street
Hold your head high, smile and move with excitement & purpose
Your body won't know the difference
Have fun with it and increase the intensity to the point you send a shiver down your spine
This is how you develop a strong WHY.
And all the other things - consistency, persistence, follow-through, action, drive and energy - will follow to help you fulfil your potential...built on top of that raging fire in your belly🔥
So don't waste another day
From Michaelangelo & Mozart to Maradona & Messi... anyone who ever achieved anything of significance all said the same thing.
They channelled a power bigger than themselves.
They discovered their WHY
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